Dearest Mary –

You have helped guide us to this new and wonderful path to married life and we are so blessed to find such a beautiful person to lead us!  Thank you for being so warm and loving throughout this process.  This is only the beginning of a lifelong friendship and we can’t wait to share many more milestones with you!

Ryan and Chris


Dear Mary,

Thank you so much for everything this year.  Everyone at the wedding told us how wonderful the ceremony was – so personalized and sweet and romantic.  They all said it was so “us” and that they were so glad that they came.  We just loved the ceremony – it was a perfect reflection of what we wanted for our union.  Thank you for making us feel so comfortable and for guiding us through the process.

Amy and Andrew


Dear Mary,

Words cannot describe how blessed Travis and I feel to have found you – it was meant to be!  Thank you so much for taking the time to get to know us, and for playing such an important role in our wedding.  Your words of wisdom and encouragement have meant so much to us.  We look forward to celebrating many more milestones with you in the years to come.

Katie and Travis



There aren’t enough words to describe the joy in Ryan and my heart.  Saturday was a miraculous demonstration of God’s love and gifts in our lives.  I am so thankful and appreciative of everything that came together on Saturday to make for such a special day.  YOU were such a LARGE part of that day’s blessings.  As I had mentioned when we first met, second to having a small and intimate wedding it was most important who married us.  You were PERFECT and such a gift.  Thank you!!!!

Thanks for making our wedding day what it was.

Much love,
Jill and Ryan



Thank you for the most amazing wedding ceremony…. we were in awe and mesmerized … were awesome!!!  Many friends and family members complemented on how beautiful the ceremony was…

You will be part of our memories forever.

Shelmina and Minaz


Hello Mary,

I wanted to take a moment to say thank you for everything you did to help make Anika and Zach’s wedding ceremony and wedding day so beautiful and such a happy affair.  Your presence at the rehearsal and the day of the wedding was so welcome and a comfort to all.  I know that Anika and Zach think very highly of you and after meeting you I understand why.  Your calmness, sense of humor and dedication to them as a couple set just the right tone for all of us and I think it was a significant influence upon both Anika and Zach leading up to and during the ceremony.  I have never seen Anika look so poised, confident and beautiful.  She really did glow and I think that came from her sense of inner peace and comfort. Zach was ready, never wavered and knew exactly what he wanted to do and it showed as well. Thank you for your guidance with them.

Many, many of our guests complimented you and were very touched by the ceremony.  You gained many friends and admirers that day and you were missed at the reception.

In closing, please know how appreciative Wim and I are.  On Sunday afternoon, when Anika and Zach returned to our home for a family gathering they were beaming and told us their wedding day had been perfect and they wouldn’t have changed a thing.  Thank you for helping to make it so…

Warmest regards and happiness during this holiday season,

(Mother of the Bride)


Hi Mary,

Thank you so much for officiating our wedding. It was beautiful, and everyone has told me how much they loved you, and how beautiful they thought our ceremony was at the Farm. I am so thankful.

I hope you are doing well. Thank you for all of your love, support, and encouragement. I will definitely keep in touch.

Huge hugs from us,


Hi Mary,

I just wanted to take a minute to thank you once again for helping craft such a lovely ceremony.  I will remember and cherish it always.  So many people commented afterwards about the moving and thoughtful words of the ceremony – Dave and I whole-heartedly agree.  It was beautifully written and presented.

Thanks again,
Margaret and Dave


About working with Mary…

We experienced an instantaneous connection with Reverend Mary and it showed through on our day as one of our guests stated: “Let’s just say Reverend Mary added a whole new dimension to wedding vows!” From the beginning, she sets you up with materials to guide you though both writing/selecting vows that suit your relationship, as well as defining your mission together as a couple. My partner (before he was my husband) and I had been together for nearly 18 years but did not have the right to marry until the referendum passed in Washington state in November 2012. Reverend Mary embraces everyone of all orientations and all faiths. She actually makes dinner for every couple to plan a personalized ceremony! She conducted the ceremony with grace, love, humor, kindness, and appreciation for our love and life together as well as all our friends and family. There was not a dry eye. Reverend Mary embodies all the qualities she expresses in the ceremony; we are blessed to know this wonderful individual.

~Brian and Daniel


Rev. Mary,

We want to thank you from the bottom of our hearts for helping to make this such a wonderful experience for us. We both had the BEST day of our lives and we will be forever grateful for your hand in making our day so special. From the moment we met you to the big day you have been nothing but incredibly helpful, kind and funny. We both felt very comfortable with you and both loved and appreciated all of the guidance, wisdom, and humor that you brought to our ceremony. It was absolutely PERFECT.

Thank you so much for being everything we wanted and MORE!!! We will forever look back fondly on that day and loved every second of it.

Please take care and we look forward to staying in touch throughout the years!

Our very best,
Daniel and Alyssa